yeah you will sometimes shrink in size when you start going minimal because your tendons and ligiments tighten up more try socks as mentioned above or sizing down if you have the funds
well do the socks make them too tight? and from my knowledge the runamocs would fit barefoot ted seems to adore them so i don't see why they wouldn't be a good choice
although i don't have bikilas simply because i see no need for them myself i wash all my VFFs at the end of the week but i never wash my classics which i leave in my jeep so the rain is like a free wash i usually just toss them in the back that isn't covered by the top.
TP vevos are good if you call those too thick maybe just try and remove the top part of a shoe and put them over your vibes like a covering to look normal.
yeah tends to happen sometimes luckily not to me but from what i can tell is just use a little super glue or shoe glue repair stuff to put it back stop it before it gets work.
got vibrams when i weighed 330 im now 290 and steadly losing weight from vigorous activities im on of my few very large friends who can run a 10K without stopping or breaking stride.